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Collaborating on your divorce could be good for your future

On Behalf of Butler, Thiessen & Metzinger, Inc. | Apr 1, 2019 | Firm News |

Every divorce is different, and what works best for your unique situation may not work well for someone else. It is smart for a California couple to explore all of the legal options available before they make a choice that will be affect their future for years to come. You may find it beneficial to consider the benefits of collaboration for your divorce. 

Collaboration is a method by which two opposing parties can resolve their disputes in a way that is respectful and peaceful. It allows you to avoid the courtroom and the cost and stress of litigation altogether. Collaborative divorce may be the right way for you and the other party to address your concerns and craft a final divorce settlement that allows you to have a strong and stable post-divorce future.

The benefits of collaboration 

Every divorce is difficult, but collaboration offers you a gentler way to walk through this complex process. One of the main benefits of this process is that you can speak your mind and work with the other party to come to a mutually beneficial solution for many of your divorce concerns. Sometimes, couples can collaborate with other professionals, such as a financial advisor or child psychologist, to help them reach an understanding. 

Collaboration often does not take as long as a litigated divorce. It can cost less than going to court, and it offers you a significant amount of control over what the post-divorce future will look like for you and your children. Throughout the collaborative process, you and your spouse will work with your own attorneys, who will advocate for you and work for the protection of your rights.

Is it right for you?

Before you make a choice that could alter the course of your future after divorce, it is smart to consider all of your options. If you think collaboration is right for you, it may help to learn more about how the process works and how you can protect your interests. You and the other party do not have to like each other to make the collaborative process work, but both of you have to be willing to set temporary emotions aside and commit to the process. 

Learn more before you decide

It may help you to discuss collaborative divorce and other options with an experienced attorney. He or she can help you understand your rights, explain California divorce laws and help you secure a final order that will work well for years to come.

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